This is a complicated issue. Not having a gf is, of course, nothing to be ashamed of, girls (women) being as they are. However there are a lot of incels who could focus their energy on self-improvement, both physical & mental, but who choose instead to stuff themselves with junk food & play video games. They become slobs with no ambition, who lack all purpose in life. They’re no good to anyone, not even to themselves.
Bonding with other men in our movement is important, and many lethargic incels are unwilling to make the necessary effort. They become a clog or dead weight. Those who view the metaphoric advance to the political far right as a process of self-betterment rightly scorn these people – though they have usually been willing to offer them advice. Daily Stormer has many articles about self-improvement, and these articles are some of the site’s most popular, measured by hits. And occasionally attempts to motivate the lethargic incel do seem tough, but look on it as tough love. We need strong men to win this fight.